Bangkok Bar Girls and Freelancers – A Must Read for First Time Visitors to Bangkok’s Red Light Districts

Bangkok’s bar girls and freelancers are some of the most beautiful women in the world. It’s the reason why men fly long hours across the world to be with them. But do you know what bar girls and freelancers really think about you? Find out how to avoid the frequent pit falls and mistakes most first time visitors to Bangkok make.

Thai girls who work in the sex industry as bar girls and freelancers may seem shy the first time you meet them. But deep inside their minds they are calculating how much they can withdraw from you, the human ATM machine.

It’s true that you can have a lot of fun with Thai bar girls whether it’s sexual or non-sexual. They can brighten up your day with a simple sniff kiss or a not so innocent touch across your thigh. But minus your ability to remember your ATM PIN number and you won’t even get a second look or a fart in your direction. That’s just the cold hard truth.

Because most people have the notion that if you’re a foreigner a Thai girl will automatically fall in love with you. That’s nonsense. Thai bar girls and freelancers know there are rich foreigners and then there are poor foreigners.

This is the way you, as a first time visitor in Bangkok’s red light districts should view how things really work in Bangkok. Most come in hopes of finding a girlfriend or a wife in a go go bar. I know that sounds crazy. But if you’ve seen as many broken hearts and emptied bank accounts from foreigners as I have then you would understand too. Live in Thailand like I do and you will preach the same.

Thai bar girls and freelancers are there for one reason. Let’s just call it business. You pay them for their time so when they are with you they are on the clock. You can take bar girls and freelancers to a dinner and a movie. A 3 day trip to Phuket. You can discuss how much you love your cat and how much you want to stay in Thailand and then have sex. They are your temporary girlfriend and provide a ‘girlfriend experience’ to you. Try and ask them to have sex for free and see what happens.

By the end of her contracted time you may have fallen in love with her. That’s a major first timer mistake. The Western idea of love is not completely the same as Thais. The only men who truly understand Thai bar girls and freelancers are Thai men, frequent visitors and expats in Thailand.

Are all bar girls and freelancers this evil and malicious? No. But the odds of you finding a good one is quite slim. Not unless you have so much money in the world that you don’t care. Even though you now know the truth you should always respect bar girls and freelancers. They are a lot smarter then you think. Respect them and their boundaries and they will return the favor.

So if you are looking for love in Thailand do what I do. Meet a Thai girl who doesn’t work in the sex industry. There are many. Remember when you come to visit bar girls and freelancers, it’s nothing personal, just business.